Likewise, husbands, live with your wives in an understanding way, showing honor to the woman as the weaker vessel, since they are heirs with you of the grace of life, so that your prayers may not be hindered. (1 Peter 3:7)
Husbands, love your wives, and do not be harsh with them. (Colossians 3:19)
Paul Washer Video - Priorities of the Christian Man
Powerful and Practical Questions to Change Your Marriage (from Rick Thomas)